Ask: What can I loosen by just 5% right now?
A belief. A timeline. An expectation.
Then take the next obvious step.
Before an important conversation or decision, pause.
Ask: Is my body safe right now?
If not, regulate first.
If you find yourself searching for the right move, pause.
Feel the breath. Notice the body reading this page.
Nothing is required. The game is still playable. Your next move is yours to choose.